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Assume you are being monitored all the time and behave accordingly, be it chat, social media, Email or any move on internet.

This will make you disciplined, in the virtual life. I know this is equally true for anything in life!

When we live together with our partner, friend or relative, we get used to the company so much so that we don't realize the presence. Let us say we get conditioned and habituated enough to recognize one's presence. Let me say start ignoring one. It is at the time of separation that we understand the loss or say importance... Small separation in physical form teaches us the lesson.

Unique

The mother NATURE demands nothing. It is not in hurry .It does not want to prove anything, but wants to remain as original and as oneself as possible. You are an individual having personalized unique properties comparable to none. Then why try to compare oneself with any and prove superior or inferior. You are You - unique, great, different. Just remain so.

I am addressed as UNCLE for last 3 to 4 years. Not because, I have suddenly grown old, but because, westernization and English has attacked us. We have stopped someone telling KAKA, MAMA, MASA or FUVA which are self-explanatory words. Instead we have gone for UNCLE. I am not unhappy about this, because there is some address instead of none. I am actually getting used to with this. And I have started liking it.

If a husband competes with his wife, it is quite possible, he’d win. But if a father competes a mother in reference to love, emotions, feelings of her to her offsprings, it is impossible to win.

Element of uncertainty is LUCK.

Whenever you do some activity, you wait for result: THE OUTCOME

The tragic part of the story is circumstances, time, environmental and human factors also play important role in deciding the end-point. So your proper planing, hard work and intelligent efforts are not the only factors to talk about.

About relationship with your parents and parents-in-law:

Never think of in-laws as your opponents or enemies.
They have some limitations of nature, similarly you too have. Simply accept.
Bringing your parents in problem with in-laws does not solve it, but complicate it most of the times. Think it over,... ultimately it is your life.

One of the greatest victories you can gain over someone is to beat one at politeness. -Josh Billings
Are you really in love? You are in love when you would rather not live life without the other person; when he or she is the first that springs to your mind in happiness or grief.

Few Sparks of Today’s Ideas

Live life, as You like it.

At the end of day, one may find out that all I did to get success, fame, friendship, relations and all such activities has nothing to do with my own self, me. And surprisingly one comes to conclusion, all these were trivial activities with no meaning whatsoever. I was wandering behind nothingness. Well, all that analysis of life at sixty or so gives wonderful surprises.

LIVE TODAY. LIVE RESPONSIBLY. LIVE as YOU please yourself. No formalities. No rituals. JUST ONE SELF.

When you start receiving the following...

No new messages or emails
No mobile calls to disturb you round the day
Phones and letters are left only for death news

...don't bother much about them. Start understanding the limit of relationships and be on-guard, instead of disturbing concerned the persons.

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An ophthalmologist by qualification and profession, Dr. Bharatchandra Desai loves reading about history, religion, and spirituality. He has written about them and also about 'Anavils' at length.

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When I started writing on my blog, I used to ask myself if I should write at all. If yes, why? I would like to share my views on this topic with you.

I write for myself. This may sound egoistic, but it is self-explanatory as well. Because I want freedom from my thought cycle, I get mental catharsis by just writing out whatever it is. While having some serious events with myself, say the death of my mother first and then father, writing down makes a record of my emotions at a given time which I’m never going to repeat.

I do write for my daughter Vaishali, son Rahul and their friends. I want to tell my experiences and let them know about me. I have done this in Life At 60 article series – it is my mini-autobiography, telling all about me. Article on Marriage, Parents in old-age homes, etc. are other such articles.

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