Resolving Conflicts
I said:If you want to tell something to your close ones – son/ daughter/ parents/ parents-in-law/ brother-sister-in-law/ sons-daughters-in-law – regarding some misunderstanding, problem, disagreement, expectation, etc., tell the concerned one directly instead of telling others.
Because -
- Telling others will complicate the issue rather than solving it.
- The other person will add her/his own material to the story and then tell. Your story may be changed in total.
- The other person may enjoy your situation in place of sympathizing you!
- If you tell your emotions directly to the concerned one, it may solve the issue.
- Telling the close person directly will make a great difference.
