Ask yourself. " What do I really want? " Take a piece of paper, a pencil and an eraser. Jot down, from your mind, 10 things that you want from your life (things that will make you feel happy). For example, things like: Happiness and peace of mind Being loved and well-being Good health Lots of money Loving spouse/children and their happiness Power and position in job/profession Nice house Lovely holidays Good education Good workplace