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āŠŠāŠĩિāŠĪ્āŠ° āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ - āŠļાāŠ°ાંāŠķ

āŠĶāŠ°ેāŠ• āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠĻા āŠļિāŠĶ્āŠ§ાંāŠĪો āŠŽાāŠŽāŠĪે āŠŪાāŠ°્āŠ—āŠĶāŠ°્āŠķāŠĻ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠŪાāŠđિāŠĪી āŠ†āŠŠāŠĪું āŠļāŠ°્āŠĩāŠŪાāŠĻ્āŠŊ āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠđોāŠŊ āŠ›ે. āŠđિāŠĻ્āŠĶુ āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠŪાં āŠŪāŠđાāŠ­ાāŠ°āŠĪ – āŠ­āŠ—āŠĩāŠĶāŠ—ીāŠĪા āŠ…āŠĻે āŠ°ાāŠŪાāŠŊāŠĢ āŠ›ે, āŠĪો āŠ–્āŠ°િāŠļ્āŠĪી āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠŪાં āŠŽાāŠˆāŠŽāŠē āŠ›ે āŠ…āŠĻે āŠķીāŠ– āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠŪાં āŠ—ુāŠ°ુāŠ—્āŠ°ંāŠĨāŠļાāŠđેāŠŽ āŠ›ે, āŠ āŠ°ીāŠĪે āŠˆāŠļ્āŠēાāŠŪāŠŪાં āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ āŠ›ે. āŠŪુāŠļ્āŠēિāŠŪોāŠĻે āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪ āŠ‰āŠŠāŠĶેāŠķ-āŠœીāŠĩāŠĻ āŠœીāŠĩāŠĩાāŠĻા āŠĻિāŠŊāŠŪો āŠ…āŠĻે āŠāŠŪāŠĻા āŠ­āŠ—āŠĩાāŠĻ āŠ…āŠē્āŠēાāŠđāŠĻી āŠ­āŠ•્āŠĪિāŠĻી āŠ°ીāŠĪો āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻāŠŪાં āŠļāŠŪāŠœાāŠĩી āŠ›ે. āŠđāŠāŠ°āŠĪ āŠŪāŠđંāŠŪāŠĶ āŠŠેāŠ—āŠŪ્āŠŽāŠ° āŠļાāŠ‰āŠĶી āŠ…āŠ°ેāŠŽિāŠŊાāŠĻા āŠŪāŠ•્āŠ•ા āŠķāŠđેāŠ°āŠŪાં āŠœāŠĻ્āŠŪ્āŠŊા. āŠŠāŠ›ી āŠĪેāŠŪāŠĻી āŠŠોāŠĪાāŠĻી āŠšાāŠēીāŠķ āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ·āŠĻી āŠ‰ંāŠŪāŠ°āŠĨી āŠķāŠ°ૂ āŠ•āŠ°ીāŠĻે āŠŽીāŠœા āŠĪ્āŠ°ેāŠĩીāŠļ āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ· āŠļુāŠ§ીāŠĻા āŠēાંāŠŽા āŠ—ાāŠģાāŠŪાં āŠˆ.āŠļ. āŦŽāŦ§āŦĶ āŠĨી āŦŽāŦĐāŦĻ āŠļુāŠ§ી āŠ…āŠē્āŠēાāŠđāŠŠાāŠ•ે āŠŠોāŠĪાāŠĻા āŠŦāŠ°િāŠļ્āŠĪાāŠ“ āŠŪાāŠ°āŠŦāŠĪે āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ āŠķāŠ°ીāŠŦāŠĻું āŠœ્āŠžાāŠĻ āŠ†āŠŠ્āŠŊું. āŠĪેāŠĻા āŠēāŠ–ાāŠĢāŠĨી āŠŽāŠĻેāŠē āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠĪે āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ. āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ āŠķāŠ°ીāŠŦ āŠŦāŠ•્āŠĪ āŠŪુāŠļ્āŠēિāŠŪોāŠĻું āŠ§āŠ°્āŠŪāŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠĻāŠĨી, āŠŽāŠē્āŠ•ે āŠĩિāŠķ્āŠĩāŠĻા āŠļāŠ˜āŠģા āŠˆāŠĻ્āŠķાāŠĻો āŠŪાāŠŸેāŠĻું āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠ›ે. āŠ•ુāŠ°āŠĻāŠŪાં āŠāŠ• āŠ…āŠē્āŠēાāŠđāŠŠાāŠ•āŠĻે āŠœ āŠļāŠ°્āŠĩāŠķāŠ•્āŠĪિāŠŪાāŠĻ āŠŪાāŠĻીāŠĻે āŠĪેāŠĻી āŠˆāŠŽાāŠĶāŠĪ (āŠ‰āŠŠાāŠļāŠĻા) āŠ•āŠ°āŠĩાāŠĻું āŠ•āŠđ્āŠŊું āŠ›ે. āŠ…āŠē્āŠēાāŠđāŠŠાāŠ• āŠļિāŠĩાāŠŊ āŠ•ોāŠˆāŠŠāŠĢāŠĻે-āŠŽીāŠœાāŠĻે āŠļાāŠŪેāŠē (āŠķāŠ°ીāŠ•) āŠ•āŠ°āŠĩાāŠĻે āŠ—ુāŠĻેāŠ—ાāŠ° āŠ—āŠĢાāŠĩ્āŠŊો āŠ›ે. āŠ•ોāŠˆāŠĻે āŠ­ાāŠ—ીāŠĶાāŠ° āŠĻ āŠŽāŠĻાāŠĩો. āŠŪૂāŠ°્āŠĪિāŠŠૂāŠœા āŠ…āŠĻે āŠ…āŠĻેāŠ•ેāŠķ્āŠĩāŠ°āŠĩાāŠĶ āŠˆāŠļ્āŠēાāŠŪāŠŪાં āŠ…āŠļ્āŠĩીāŠ•ાāŠ°્āŠŊ āŠ›ે. āŠ•ુāŠ°ાāŠĻ āŠŪાāŠĻāŠĩāŠļāŠŪાāŠœāŠĻી āŠ†āŠ§્āŠŊાāŠĪ્āŠŪિāŠ• āŠļāŠŪāŠœāŠĢ āŠŪાāŠŸે āŠ‰āŠĪાāŠ°āŠĩાāŠŪાં āŠ†āŠĩ્āŠŊું āŠ›ે. āŠĪેāŠŪાં āŠĩિāŠœ્āŠžા...

Jealousy

My friend Dr Ashwinbhai Naik  asked me to share my views on the topic 'jealousy' and that created this viewpoint article. Jealousy is an emotion inherited by all of us. It has nothing to do with age, sex, intellectual level or financial status. This emotion is a negative one expressed according to the intensity of the feeling, and that is why some people can hide it even though they have it in the back of their minds.

Three Decades Of My Nomadic Experience

I recently read the novel "Pyramid of Virgin Dreams" by Vipul Mitra. He affectionately described the pains and pleasures of multiple transfers because of his father’s job as DSP and later himself as an IAS officer. While reading it occurred to me, I have had a similar life of changing a place many times nearly every alternate year. So why not narrate my story and the article is here! A nomad means someone who lives by travelling from place to place - moving around all the while. I was a nomad for the initial 28 years of my life, staying and studying at more than 15 places. A year or two and change of the place again! 

āŠĩāŠđાāŠēāŠĻું āŠ…āŠ•્āŠ·āŠŊāŠŠાāŠĪ્āŠ° - āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠŠāŠ°િāŠšāŠŊ

āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨીāŠ“ āŠĶ્āŠĩાāŠ°ા āŠķિāŠ•્āŠ·āŠ•āŠĻે āŠĩિāŠĶાāŠŊ āŠļāŠŪāŠŊે āŠ•āŠĶાāŠš āŠļ્āŠŪૃāŠĪિ-āŠ­ેāŠŸ āŠ…āŠŠાāŠŊ āŠ•ે āŠķાāŠģા āŠ…āŠĻે/āŠ…āŠĨāŠĩા āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨીāŠ“ āŠĶ્āŠĩાāŠ°ા āŠļાāŠ°ી āŠ°ીāŠĪે āŠŪāŠĒાāŠĩેāŠē āŠļāŠĻ્āŠŪાāŠĻ-āŠŠāŠĪ્āŠ° āŠĩિāŠĶાāŠŊ āŠļāŠŪાāŠ°ંāŠ­ āŠĩāŠ–āŠĪે āŠ…āŠ°્āŠŠāŠĢ āŠĨાāŠŊ. āŠ•āŠĶાāŠš āŠĩāŠ§ુ āŠ‰āŠĪ્āŠļાāŠđી āŠđોāŠŊ āŠĪો āŠļંāŠ­ાāŠ°āŠĢું āŠ•ે āŠŠāŠ°િāŠšāŠŊ āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪિāŠ•ા āŠ›ાāŠŠāŠĩાāŠŪાં āŠ†āŠĩે āŠ›ે. āŠŠāŠĢ āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ·ો āŠŠāŠ›ી 2014 āŠŪાં āŠļ્āŠŸુāŠĄāŠĻ્āŠŸ āŠ°િāŠŊુāŠĻિāŠŊāŠĻāŠŪાં āŠ­ેāŠ—ા āŠĨāŠŊેāŠēા 1988 āŠŽેāŠšāŠĻા āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨીāŠ“ āŠĪેāŠŪāŠĻા āŠ—ુāŠ°ુāŠœી āŠŪાāŠŸે āŠāŠ• āŠœીāŠĩāŠĻāŠšāŠ°િāŠĪ્āŠ° āŠ…āŠĻે āŠĩિāŠĩિāŠ§ āŠŠ્āŠ°āŠ•ાāŠ°āŠĻા āŠēેāŠ–āŠ•ો-āŠļāŠ—ા āŠļંāŠŽંāŠ§ીāŠ“ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨીāŠ“ āŠĶ્āŠĩાāŠ°ા āŠēેāŠ–āŠ•ોāŠĻું āŠļંāŠ•āŠēāŠĻ āŠ•āŠ°ી 422 āŠŠાāŠĻાāŠĻું āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠ›ાāŠŠાāŠĩે āŠĪેāŠĩું āŠŠāŠđેāŠēીāŠĩાāŠ° āŠœોāŠĩા āŠŪāŠģ્āŠŊું. āŠ§āŠĻ્āŠŊ āŠ›ે āŠ—ુāŠ°ુāŠœી āŠŪāŠđેāŠķāŠ­ાāŠˆ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠ§āŠĻ્āŠŊ āŠ›ે āŠ† āŠļાāŠđāŠļ āŠ•āŠ°āŠĻાāŠ° āŠĩિāŠ°ેāŠĻāŠ­ાāŠˆ-āŠœીāŠĻાāŠŽેāŠĻ āŠķેāŠ  āŠ…āŠĻે āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨીāŠ“-āŠķિāŠ·્āŠŊો!   “āŠĩāŠđાāŠēāŠĻું āŠ…āŠ•્āŠ·āŠŊāŠŠાāŠĪ્āŠ°” āŠķીāŠ°્āŠ·āŠ• āŠŽિāŠēāŠ•ુāŠē āŠŊāŠĨાāŠ°્āŠĨ āŠ›ે, āŠ•ાāŠ°āŠĢ āŠ…āŠđીં āŠķિāŠ·્āŠŊોāŠ (āŠĩિāŠĶ્āŠŊાāŠ°્āŠĨી āŠ…āŠĩāŠļ્āŠĨાāŠŪાં āŠ…āŠĻે āŠĪ્āŠŊાāŠ° āŠŠāŠ›ી āŠœીāŠĩāŠĻāŠŠāŠ°્āŠŊંāŠĪ) āŠ—ુāŠ°ૂāŠœીāŠ āŠĩāŠ°āŠļાāŠĩેāŠē āŠ…āŠĻāŠđāŠĶ āŠŠ્āŠ°ેāŠŪ-āŠ†āŠķીāŠ°્āŠĩાāŠĶ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠŪાāŠ°્āŠ—āŠĶāŠ°્āŠķāŠĻāŠĻું āŠ‹āŠĢ āŠ…āŠĶા āŠ•ાāŠ°āŠĩાāŠĻો āŠĻāŠŪ્āŠ° āŠŠ્āŠ°āŠŊાāŠļ āŠ†āŠĶāŠ°્āŠŊો āŠ›ે. āŠŪāŠđાāŠ­ાāŠ°āŠĪāŠŪાં āŠķ્āŠ°ીāŠ•ૃāŠ·્āŠĢે āŠĶ્āŠ°ૌāŠŠāŠĶીāŠĻે āŠ†āŠŠેāŠē āŠ…āŠ•્āŠ·āŠŊāŠŠાāŠĪ્āŠ°āŠĻી āŠœેāŠŪ āŠœ āŠ† āŠŪાāŠĻāŠĩીāŠŊ āŠ…āŠ•્āŠ·āŠŊāŠŠાāŠĪ્āŠ° āŠ•્āŠŊાāŠ°ેāŠŊ āŠ–ાāŠēી āŠĨāŠŊેāŠē āŠķિāŠ·્āŠŊોāŠĻે āŠēાāŠ—્āŠŊું āŠĻāŠĨી āŠĪ્āŠŊાāŠ°ે, āŠ—ુāŠ°ુāŠœી āŠŠ્āŠ°ેāŠŪāŠĻા āŠŠ્āŠ°āŠĪીāŠ•āŠ°ૂāŠŠ “āŠĩ્āŠđાāŠēāŠĻું āŠ…āŠ•્āŠ·āŠŊāŠŠાāŠĪ્āŠ°” āŠķિāŠ°્āŠ·āŠ• āŠŊāŠĨાāŠŊોāŠ—્āŠŊ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠļંāŠŠૂāŠ°્āŠĢ āŠ›ે. āŠ•ોāŠˆ āŠœાāŠĪāŠĻી ...

Why Elderly People Don't Spend

This is the story of senior citizens, say, old-aged people, above the age of 60 and their habit of minimum spending or not spending at all. They want to save a big amount of money till the last day of their lives and make a big heap of money to be left behind. Before I discuss the details, let me give you certain real-life examples without their names. Yes, all of these are true stories of senior citizens.

āŠ…ંāŠ—āŠĶāŠĻો āŠŠāŠ— - āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ• āŠŠāŠ°િāŠšāŠŊ

āŠāŠ• āŠœ āŠŽેāŠ āŠ•āŠŪાં āŠ•ે āŠŠāŠ›ી āŠļāŠģંāŠ— āŠĩાંāŠšāŠĩાāŠĻી āŠ‰āŠĪ્āŠ•ંāŠ ા āŠœાāŠ—ે āŠāŠĩી āŠ† āŠĻāŠĩāŠēāŠ•āŠĨાāŠĻો āŠŠāŠ°િāŠšāŠŊ āŠ•āŠ°ાāŠĩāŠĩાāŠĻો āŠĻāŠŪ્āŠ° āŠŠ્āŠ°āŠŊાāŠļ āŠ•āŠ°āŠĪાં āŠ–ૂāŠŽ āŠ†āŠĻંāŠĶ āŠĨાāŠŊ āŠ›ે.  āŠ­ુāŠœ āŠ°āŠđેāŠĪા, āŠđાāŠē 74 āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ·ીāŠŊ, āŠ†āŠŠāŠĢાં āŠēેāŠ–āŠ• āŠķ્āŠ°ી āŠđāŠ°ેāŠķ āŠ§ોāŠģāŠ•િāŠŊા āŠœિંāŠĶāŠ—ીāŠĻા 25 āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ· āŠķિāŠ•્āŠ·āŠĢāŠ•ાāŠ°્āŠŊ āŠ•āŠ°āŠĪાં āŠđāŠĪા. āŠ…āŠĻે āŠ†āŠĶāŠ°્āŠķ āŠķિāŠ•્āŠ·āŠ•āŠĻા āŠāŠ• āŠēāŠ•્āŠ·āŠĢ āŠĪāŠ°ીāŠ•ે āŠŠુāŠļ્āŠĪāŠ•ો āŠĩાંāŠšāŠĩાāŠĻી āŠļāŠ°āŠļ āŠŸેāŠĩ āŠ§āŠ°ાāŠĩāŠĪા āŠđāŠĪા. āŠĪે āŠ•ાāŠ°āŠĢે 1945 āŠŪાં āŠēāŠ–ાāŠŊેāŠē 1930 āŠĻી āŠ•āŠĨાāŠĩāŠļ્āŠĪુ āŠ§āŠ°ાāŠĩāŠĪી āŠēેāŠ–િāŠ•ા āŠˆāŠŊાāŠĻ āŠđેāŠĻ્āŠĄ āŠĶ્āŠĩાāŠ°ા āŠēિāŠ–િāŠĪ āŠŽે āŠĻāŠĩāŠēāŠ•āŠĨાāŠ“ āŠĩાંāŠšે āŠ›ે - 700+ āŠŠાāŠĻાંāŠĻી Fountain Head (āŠŦાāŠ‰āŠĻ્āŠŸāŠĻ āŠđેāŠĄ) āŠļાāŠĪ-āŠļાāŠĪ āŠĩાāŠ° āŠļāŠģંāŠ— āŠĩાંāŠšી āŠĪો 1150+ āŠŠાāŠĻાં āŠ§āŠ°ાāŠĩāŠĪી Atlas Shrugged (āŠāŠŸāŠēાāŠļ āŠķ્āŠ°āŠ—્āŠĄ) āŠŠāŠĢ āŠļāŠģંāŠ— āŠ…āŠĩાāŠ°āŠĻāŠĩાāŠ° āŠĩાંāŠšી. 1988āŠĻા āŠĩāŠ°્āŠ·ે āŠĨāŠŊેāŠē āŠ† āŠ…āŠ•āŠļ્āŠŪાāŠĪ(!) āŠ†āŠŠāŠĢી āŠĻāŠĩāŠēāŠ•āŠĨાāŠĻું āŠœāŠĻ્āŠŪāŠļ્āŠĨાāŠĻ āŠ›ે.  āŠŦાāŠ‰āŠĻ્āŠŸāŠĻ āŠđેāŠĄ āŠ…āŠĻે āŠāŠŸāŠēાāŠļ āŠķ્āŠ°āŠ—્āŠĄ āŠĻāŠĩāŠēāŠ•āŠĨાāŠ“ āŠ°āŠķિāŠŊāŠĻ āŠēેāŠ–િāŠ•ા āŠˆāŠŊાāŠĻ āŠđેāŠĻ્āŠĄે āŠ…āŠŪેāŠ°િāŠ•ા āŠœāŠˆāŠĻે āŠēāŠ–ી āŠ›ે āŠ…āŠĻે āŠŽāŠĻ્āŠĻેāŠĻી 64 āŠēાāŠ– āŠĨી āŠĩāŠ§ુ āŠĻāŠ•āŠēો āŠĩિāŠķ્āŠĩāŠ­āŠ°āŠŪાં āŠĩંāŠšાāŠŊ āŠšૂāŠ•ી āŠ›ે. āŠŽāŠĻ્āŠĻે āŠŪાં āŠēેāŠ–āŠ•āŠĻે “āŠŪાāŠĻāŠĩ āŠķ્āŠ°ેāŠ·્āŠ āŠĪ્āŠĩ” āŠĻા āŠ…āŠĶ્āŠĶāŠ­ૂāŠĪ āŠĶāŠ°્āŠķāŠĻ āŠĨāŠŊા āŠ›ે. āŠ† āŠ‰āŠŠāŠ°ાંāŠĪ āŠŠ્āŠ°āŠĪિāŠ­ાāŠķાāŠģી āŠ…āŠĻે āŠļાāŠŪાāŠĻ્āŠŊ (First Raters and Second Raters)āŠĻું āŠĪેāŠŪાં āŠĨāŠŊેāŠēાં āŠĩāŠ°્āŠĢāŠĻ āŠĪેāŠŪāŠĢે āŠ†āŠĪ્āŠŪāŠķાāŠĪ āŠ•āŠ°્āŠŊું āŠ›ે.  āŠŠāŠđેāŠēા āŠēેāŠ–āŠ•āŠķ્āŠ°ીāŠĻા āŠŪિāŠĪ્āŠ° āŠķ્āŠ°ી āŠļુāŠ°ેāŠķāŠ­ાāŠˆ āŠŠāŠ°ીāŠ–ે āŠāŠŸāŠēાāŠļ āŠķ્āŠ°āŠ—્āŠĄāŠĻું āŠ­ાāŠ·ાંāŠĪāŠ° āŠ•āŠ°āŠĩા āŠļૂāŠšāŠĩ્āŠŊું. āŠĪ્āŠŊાāŠ° āŠŠāŠ›ી...

Soulful Simplicity - Book Review

How long can a book review of a 230+ pages book be considered ideal? I was not sure, so I ignored this and summarised it in my way.  The author Courtney Carver was diagnosed having 'multiple sclerosis' – a gradually increasing and killing disease. She did not surrender, instead, she decided to live life debt-free, clutter-free, mostly stress-free, and this way she found out the purpose of life. To our surprise, she got cured of the disease.  She shared her experience in this book talking about soul by 'hand to heart exercise' and simplicity in ' Project 333 '. Let us see both and understand the book.  Exercise 1: Hand To Heart Exercise Put your hands on your heart.  Time: Choose a time each day when you can sit alone for a few minutes. You may light a candle. Keep a pen and paper nearby to jot down thoughts.  Sit: Sit comfortably on the floor, on a chair, on your bed or anywhere you feel comfortable.  Silence: Try practising in silence or with soft music....