Pune or Bangalore? Even Chhatrapati Shivajirao Bhonsale was confused.
Shivaji was a strong headed person and did not bow down his head to Sultan. To save him from the punishment, his father Shahaji sent him back from Bangalore to Pune where he became the king.
- Shivaji Maharaj was born in 1630 at the Shivneri Fort near Pune and stayed there for 10 years with his mother Jijabai. (From Shivneri Fort, his name Shivaji was derived.)
- His father Shahaji used to work in Bangalore with Sultan Adilshah of Bijapur.
Shivaji was a strong headed person and did not bow down his head to Sultan. To save him from the punishment, his father Shahaji sent him back from Bangalore to Pune where he became the king.
Beware!
These characters are ideal for anybody. But at the same time, they may make you idle (not ideal, but idle) and stop your progress.
- Content
- Simplicity
- Non-violence and
- Let-go ('tyaagi') attitude
These characters are ideal for anybody. But at the same time, they may make you idle (not ideal, but idle) and stop your progress.
Typically marriages are decided by one of these two methods in our society:
- Arranged Marriage: Socially accepted and practised method where ‘offer’ for marriage is given by appropriate party and then, marriage is finalized on the basis of match-making.
- Love Marriage: Recently established way of selecting marriage partner after some contact, friendship and/or attraction because of looks. Here prospective partners for marriage decide themselves marry with or without consent from parents and families.
Every relationship needs:
- Compromise
- Nurturing and
- Trust, besides
- Love
I would like my blog readers to comment the way they understand the following:
Good nature
is worth,
more than knowledge,
more than money and more than any honour
to those who have it.
- H W Beechar
Good nature
is worth,
more than knowledge,
more than money and more than any honour
to those who have it.
- H W Beechar
Break verb.
- Interrupt
- To stop doing something for a while
- Destroy
- End of relation
- Connection by links or rings
- Series of connected things e.g. hotels, shops
- Continuous connection due to attachments
- Way in which one person is connected/associated with another
- Contacts or link between people, groups or countries
- Attachment between two because of birth, marriage or contact
Balancing two sides of relations:
- A son/daughter: Parents and offsprings
- A married woman: Parents and parents-in-laws
- A married son: Wife and parents
One year back, I was writing about myself in an article Death at 60. I wrote there I was ready to die at any time, but given a choice, I would like to wait until my father was alive. My purpose for this demand of concession was my desire to support my father morally and physically in his old age. Well, he did not agree to this and went away forever on his own. So, I can loudly pronounce now “I am ready to die!”
However, I have yet to learn how to react to someone when I disagree with them and/or my ideas differ in total from the concerned person. At present, in such situations, I keep myself away and withdraw. It can be labeled as escapism. But coming to a consensus or agreement is not always easy. Due to the generation gap or the conservative approach of parents, the difference of opinion is bound to be there. Here, both parties should take care of maintaining the dignity of the other. The ideal option is to ignore the nature of the parents and forgive them immediately.
However, I have yet to learn how to react to someone when I disagree with them and/or my ideas differ in total from the concerned person. At present, in such situations, I keep myself away and withdraw. It can be labeled as escapism. But coming to a consensus or agreement is not always easy. Due to the generation gap or the conservative approach of parents, the difference of opinion is bound to be there. Here, both parties should take care of maintaining the dignity of the other. The ideal option is to ignore the nature of the parents and forgive them immediately.
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