Balancing Relations

Balancing two sides of relations:

A son/daughter: Parents and offsprings
A married woman: Parents and parents-in-laws
A married son: Wife and parents

When you are any of the above, you are an in-between person. You have to be tricky, cautious and careful person in handling either side maintaining your own views or you will be in trouble. You need not be judging any, but you have to be neutral and caring both.

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