When we live together with our partner, friend or relative, we get used to the company so much so that we don't realize the presence. Let us say we get conditioned and habituated enough to recognize one's presence. Let me say start ignoring one. It is at the time of separation that we understand the loss or say importance... Small separation in physical form teaches us the lesson.
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I am addressed as UNCLE for last 3 to 4 years. Not because, I have suddenly grown old, but because, westernization and English has attacked us. We have stopped someone telling KAKA, MAMA, MASA or FUVA which are self-explanatory words. Instead we have gone for UNCLE. I am not unhappy about this, because there is some address instead of none. I am actually getting used to with this. And I have started liking it.
Element of uncertainty is LUCK.
Whenever you do some activity, you wait for result: THE OUTCOME
The tragic part of the story is circumstances, time, environmental and human factors also play important role in deciding the end-point. So your proper planing, hard work and intelligent efforts are not the only factors to talk about.
Whenever you do some activity, you wait for result: THE OUTCOME
The tragic part of the story is circumstances, time, environmental and human factors also play important role in deciding the end-point. So your proper planing, hard work and intelligent efforts are not the only factors to talk about.
About relationship with your parents and parents-in-law:
- Never think of in-laws as your opponents or enemies.
- They have some limitations of nature, similarly you too have. Simply accept.
- Bringing your parents in problem with in-laws does not solve it, but complicate it most of the times. Think it over,... ultimately it is your life.
- One of the greatest victories you can gain over someone is to beat one at politeness. -Josh Billings
- Are you really in love? You are in love when you would rather not live life without the other person; when he or she is the first that springs to your mind in happiness or grief.
Few Sparks of Today’s Ideas
At the end of day, one may find out that all I did to get success, fame, friendship, relations and all such activities has nothing to do with my own self, me. And surprisingly one comes to conclusion, all these were trivial activities with no meaning whatsoever. I was wandering behind nothingness. Well, all that analysis of life at sixty or so gives wonderful surprises.
LIVE TODAY. LIVE RESPONSIBLY. LIVE as YOU please yourself. No formalities. No rituals. JUST ONE SELF.
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LIVE TODAY. LIVE RESPONSIBLY. LIVE as YOU please yourself. No formalities. No rituals. JUST ONE SELF.
When you start receiving the following...
- No new messages or emails
- No mobile calls to disturb you round the day
- Phones and letters are left only for death news
To start with, some facts about Suicide (in India):
Causes:
1. Poverty
2. Alcoholism
3. An anguished man
4. A misfortune
5. Failure in exam
6. Family Feud
7. Depression
8. Unemployment
9. Dowry
Causes:
1. Poverty
2. Alcoholism
3. An anguished man
4. A misfortune
5. Failure in exam
6. Family Feud
7. Depression
8. Unemployment
9. Dowry
This is a platform to express yourself uninhibited. The readers are friends chosen by you. Why not tell your views, have a mental catharsis and relax? Friends are one who are eager to read your story, share it and be with you.
To hate someone is easy. To abuse someone is even easier. To insult someone is the easiest. How to manage it? I am not talking about power of mind, personality development, positive thinking, yoga or many other such things. It can be read or heard elsewhere. I am describing my present thought-cycle.
Why not love? Why not ignore? Or why not accept the individual in one's original form? If reacting is inevitable, be brief.
Why not love? Why not ignore? Or why not accept the individual in one's original form? If reacting is inevitable, be brief.
When I see someone, my senses form one opinion and accordingly, I start reacting.I start loving and respecting the said fellow without reasons or its opposite. The friend-circle gets formed this way. That is the reason why some of your contacts who are most of the time with you, are never your friends.
Eye Hospitals, Eye Banks
C.S. Samaria International Red Cross Eye Bank
Dr. Harshdrai Talakashibhai Vora
2, Neelam Park, Sanjay-Sachin Towers Road
Satellite
Ahmedabad 380015
Gujarat
Phone: 7450633
Eye Bank Department of Ophthalmology PGIMS
Pt.B.D. Sharma PGIMS
Rohtak 124001, Haryana
Ahmedbad 380004
Gujarat
Phone: 244536
Indian Red Cross Society
Medical Director
1, Atulya Bhawan, Near C.P.C.
Sarkhej-Gandhi Nagar Highway, Thaltej
Ahmedabad 380054
Gujarat
Phone: 7413333
Indian Red Cross Society
Red Cross Bhawan
Diwanpara Road
Bhavnagar 364001
Gujarat
Phone: 2424761
Khammam Distt. Police Eye Bank
Surat 395007
Gujarat
Phone: 25333
Kashyap Rotary Eye Bank
Baroda 390001
Gujarat
Phone: 236299
Lok Drishti Eye Bank
"Gayatri Hospital', A/26, Rangavdhut Society
Matawadi, L.H. Road
Surat 395001
Gujarat
Phone: 261545232
Lt. Smt. Shardaben M. Shah Eye Bank
Dr. Dixit A.N.
Run By Rotary Club of Patan
Rotary Bhawan, Khetarvasi
Patan 384265
Gujarat
Lions Club of Surat (Mid Town)
Trustee
129/130, Multi Storey Building
Singapuri Ni Wadi
Surat 395002
Gujarat
Phone: 611423
Murshidabad Eye Care and Donation Society
Convenor
39/1, Radhaballav Para Lane
Khagra 742103
West Bengal
Mehsana 384002
Gujarat
Phone: 348252124
Medical Care Centre Trust
Chief Administrator
Children Hospital
Karelibaug, Jalaram Marg
Vadodara 390018
Gujarat
Phone: 2463906
Rotary Eye Institute
Hon. Secretary
Sant Punit Eye Bank
Smt. Lilavatiben Mohanlal Shah (Bilimorawala) Eye Hospital,
Dudhia Tal
Navasari 396445
Gujarat
Phone: 263758931
Red Cross International Eye Bank
Secretary
Indian Red Cross Society
Dholka Branch,
Atulya Bhawan, Sarkhej
Gandhi Nagar Highway
Ahmedabad 380054
Gujarat
R.N.C. Free Eye Hospital Eye Bank
Dr. Paragji Desai Road
Opp-Mamlatdar Office
Valsad 396001
Gujarat M
Phone: 44263
Sameep Eye Hospital and Corneal Centre
Corneal and Anterior Segment Surgeon
Opp-Rajdhani Society
Harni Warasia Ring Road
Vadodara 390006
Gujarat
Samsan Vyausta Samiti Eye Bank Vahivati Committee
C/o. Yashuant C. Khakhar
Grain Market
Jamnagar 361001
Gujarat
Phone: 558854
Vision Care Centre
Dr. Amit J. Mehta
Opp-Amber Cinema
Jamnagar
Jamnagar, Gujarat
Phone: 551519
V.G. Sapovadia Netraraksha Charitable Trust
C/o. Netradeep Eye Hospital (P) Ltd.
Kanak Road, B/h-Bus Station
Rajkot 360001
Gujarat
Phone: 225190
V.T. Thakur Memorial Lions Eye Bank
At-Chalthan
Chalthan-Post 394305
Gujarat
Phone: 846822646
C.S. Samaria International Red Cross Eye Bank
Dr. Harshdrai Talakashibhai Vora
2, Neelam Park, Sanjay-Sachin Towers Road
Satellite
Ahmedabad 380015
Gujarat
Phone: 7450633
Eye Bank Department of Ophthalmology PGIMS
Pt.B.D. Sharma PGIMS
Rohtak 124001, Haryana
Ahmedbad 380004
Gujarat
Phone: 244536
Indian Red Cross Society
Medical Director
1, Atulya Bhawan, Near C.P.C.
Sarkhej-Gandhi Nagar Highway, Thaltej
Ahmedabad 380054
Gujarat
Phone: 7413333
Indian Red Cross Society
Red Cross Bhawan
Diwanpara Road
Bhavnagar 364001
Gujarat
Phone: 2424761
Khammam Distt. Police Eye Bank
Surat 395007
Gujarat
Phone: 25333
Kashyap Rotary Eye Bank
Baroda 390001
Gujarat
Phone: 236299
Lok Drishti Eye Bank
"Gayatri Hospital', A/26, Rangavdhut Society
Matawadi, L.H. Road
Surat 395001
Gujarat
Phone: 261545232
Lt. Smt. Shardaben M. Shah Eye Bank
Dr. Dixit A.N.
Run By Rotary Club of Patan
Rotary Bhawan, Khetarvasi
Patan 384265
Gujarat
Lions Club of Surat (Mid Town)
Trustee
129/130, Multi Storey Building
Singapuri Ni Wadi
Surat 395002
Gujarat
Phone: 611423
Murshidabad Eye Care and Donation Society
Convenor
39/1, Radhaballav Para Lane
Khagra 742103
West Bengal
Mehsana 384002
Gujarat
Phone: 348252124
Medical Care Centre Trust
Chief Administrator
Children Hospital
Karelibaug, Jalaram Marg
Vadodara 390018
Gujarat
Phone: 2463906
Rotary Eye Institute
Hon. Secretary
Sant Punit Eye Bank
Smt. Lilavatiben Mohanlal Shah (Bilimorawala) Eye Hospital,
Dudhia Tal
Navasari 396445
Gujarat
Phone: 263758931
Red Cross International Eye Bank
Secretary
Indian Red Cross Society
Dholka Branch,
Atulya Bhawan, Sarkhej
Gandhi Nagar Highway
Ahmedabad 380054
Gujarat
R.N.C. Free Eye Hospital Eye Bank
Dr. Paragji Desai Road
Opp-Mamlatdar Office
Valsad 396001
Gujarat M
Phone: 44263
Sameep Eye Hospital and Corneal Centre
Corneal and Anterior Segment Surgeon
Opp-Rajdhani Society
Harni Warasia Ring Road
Vadodara 390006
Gujarat
Samsan Vyausta Samiti Eye Bank Vahivati Committee
C/o. Yashuant C. Khakhar
Grain Market
Jamnagar 361001
Gujarat
Phone: 558854
Vision Care Centre
Dr. Amit J. Mehta
Opp-Amber Cinema
Jamnagar
Jamnagar, Gujarat
Phone: 551519
V.G. Sapovadia Netraraksha Charitable Trust
C/o. Netradeep Eye Hospital (P) Ltd.
Kanak Road, B/h-Bus Station
Rajkot 360001
Gujarat
Phone: 225190
V.T. Thakur Memorial Lions Eye Bank
At-Chalthan
Chalthan-Post 394305
Gujarat
Phone: 846822646
What is a cornea and how do cornea transplants restore sight?
The cornea is a clear dime-sized tissue that covers the front of the eye. If the cornea becomes clouded through disease or injury, vision is impaired and sometimes lost entirely.
The only substitute for a human cornea is another human cornea donated at death by someone who thus leaves a living legacy.
Who can donate eyes?
Almost everyone can donate his or her eyes. Donor tissue that can’t be used for transplant can, with consent, be used for medical education and research purposes.
How can I donate my eyes?
There are two very important steps you must take to become a donor. First, sign a donor card and carry it with you. Second, TALK TO YOUR FAMILY. You must let your family members know that you wish to be an eye donor. Unless your donor card is available at the time of death, your next of kin will be responsible for granting consent. It can be a difficult decision for them if your wishes are not known. Having a discussion about donation with your family is the first step in the effort to restore sight and save lives.
Is there a cost to donate?
There is no cost to donate. Transplant agencies pay any costs associated with the recovery of organs and tissues from donors.
Would donating delay funeral arrangements?
Donating should not delay funeral arrangements. It may take additional time, usually no more than four hours, to coordinate the donation process with the funeral home, and for any extra efforts taken to prepare the body for presentation.
Can we have an open casket?
Eye donation should not prevent having an open casket service.
Does my religion support eye, organ, and tissue donation?
All major religions support donations. However, if you have concerns about your religion’s position, please get in touch with your religious leader/representative.
Is cancer a rule-out for donation?
No, cancer does not automatically prohibit eye donation.
If I wear glasses can I still donate?
Yes, you can! People who have poor vision and wear glasses, or have had previous eye diseases or surgery can still donate, since these conditions may not affect the cornea. Eyes donated to The Eye Bank that are not medically suitable for transplant may be used for medical research and education. For example if you have had LASIK surgery you can donate for research and medical education purposes.
Are families told who will receive the donation?
It is Eye-Bank policy to keep donor and recipient identities completely confidential. However, certain information can be shared and The Eye-Bank offers to conduct correspondence between donor families and recipients as long as identities are kept anonymous. Recipients especially are encouraged to send thank-you notes to their donor families through The Eye Bank. Click here to learn how to write your donor family.
Can the family designate a recipient?
It is possible to designate a recipient although it is fairly unlikely that a donation would occur in a timely manner to facilitate a needed transplant. However, if at the time of death, a family member is in need of a cornea transplant then The Eye Bank will make every effort to match the donor tissue with that person.
What kind of research is done with eye donations?
Research into diseases such as cataracts, glaucoma, and diseases of the retina is advanced through eye donation. Read more about our research efforts in our Research section.
How long do recipients usually wait for a cornea?
Cornea transplant surgery is typically an elective procedure allowing the surgeon and patient to choose the most convenient day for the surgery to take place. The need for emergency tissue is met within 24 hours.
The cornea is a clear dime-sized tissue that covers the front of the eye. If the cornea becomes clouded through disease or injury, vision is impaired and sometimes lost entirely.
The only substitute for a human cornea is another human cornea donated at death by someone who thus leaves a living legacy.
Who can donate eyes?
Almost everyone can donate his or her eyes. Donor tissue that can’t be used for transplant can, with consent, be used for medical education and research purposes.
How can I donate my eyes?
There are two very important steps you must take to become a donor. First, sign a donor card and carry it with you. Second, TALK TO YOUR FAMILY. You must let your family members know that you wish to be an eye donor. Unless your donor card is available at the time of death, your next of kin will be responsible for granting consent. It can be a difficult decision for them if your wishes are not known. Having a discussion about donation with your family is the first step in the effort to restore sight and save lives.
Is there a cost to donate?
There is no cost to donate. Transplant agencies pay any costs associated with the recovery of organs and tissues from donors.
Would donating delay funeral arrangements?
Donating should not delay funeral arrangements. It may take additional time, usually no more than four hours, to coordinate the donation process with the funeral home, and for any extra efforts taken to prepare the body for presentation.
Can we have an open casket?
Eye donation should not prevent having an open casket service.
Does my religion support eye, organ, and tissue donation?
All major religions support donations. However, if you have concerns about your religion’s position, please get in touch with your religious leader/representative.
Is cancer a rule-out for donation?
No, cancer does not automatically prohibit eye donation.
If I wear glasses can I still donate?
Yes, you can! People who have poor vision and wear glasses, or have had previous eye diseases or surgery can still donate, since these conditions may not affect the cornea. Eyes donated to The Eye Bank that are not medically suitable for transplant may be used for medical research and education. For example if you have had LASIK surgery you can donate for research and medical education purposes.
Are families told who will receive the donation?
It is Eye-Bank policy to keep donor and recipient identities completely confidential. However, certain information can be shared and The Eye-Bank offers to conduct correspondence between donor families and recipients as long as identities are kept anonymous. Recipients especially are encouraged to send thank-you notes to their donor families through The Eye Bank. Click here to learn how to write your donor family.
Can the family designate a recipient?
It is possible to designate a recipient although it is fairly unlikely that a donation would occur in a timely manner to facilitate a needed transplant. However, if at the time of death, a family member is in need of a cornea transplant then The Eye Bank will make every effort to match the donor tissue with that person.
What kind of research is done with eye donations?
Research into diseases such as cataracts, glaucoma, and diseases of the retina is advanced through eye donation. Read more about our research efforts in our Research section.
How long do recipients usually wait for a cornea?
Cornea transplant surgery is typically an elective procedure allowing the surgeon and patient to choose the most convenient day for the surgery to take place. The need for emergency tissue is met within 24 hours.
How long can a cornea be stored?
The Eye Bank does keep a “bank” of tissue in its laboratory. Fortunately, cornea tissue can be preserved and stored for several days before it must be used for transplant. However, since the demand for ocular tissue is so great most donor tissue is distributed within a day or two after its arrival.
The Eye Bank does keep a “bank” of tissue in its laboratory. Fortunately, cornea tissue can be preserved and stored for several days before it must be used for transplant. However, since the demand for ocular tissue is so great most donor tissue is distributed within a day or two after its arrival.
What happens to unused tissue?
Tissue not used for transplantation or research is disposed of in an ethical manner.
Tissue not used for transplantation or research is disposed of in an ethical manner.
Reference: EyeDonation.org
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