A self-destroying compulsion, what really is Comparison? We mean it as an evaluation of the similarities and differences of one or more persons/entities to some other persons/entities. So, it is an account of resemblances and contrasts as superior or inferior. We humans have an inherited habit of comparing ourselves with near ones, friends and relatives, usually after considering them to be superior in our imaginary belief.
Air, water and food are must for a life, we know. But, many of us do not know that sleep is the fourth most essential for life giving sound body and mind. Loss of sleep, better known as insomnia, present in the third of the world's adult population leads to mental depression, a life threatening disease. An adult needs six to eight hours of uninterrupted profound sleep every day. How to ensure this?Let us understand the ways to deal with this issue point to point, and to get sound sleep.
Generally, the wedding of a daughter is event parents plan from the day of her birth. They start saving money and dream about the son-in-law to be. But all these have one condition tagged – “Consent of Parents”. Or say a final decision has to be with and as per the will of the parents. When this does not happen and daughter decides to marry at her own will – against the consent of parents, they get shocked emotionally to its deepest level and this is the subject of my discussion.
Money. How much is enough? Present time has created an impression that more the money more the happiness. Poverty makes a person inferior in this society, however clever, intelligent, honest and hardworking he or she may be. So, the young generation of the day has clear idea of being rich by earning more and earning at the earliest. So the question arises, how much money is enough money? Before giving the clear cut answer as I am certainly going to do – I would like to tell you the evolution of money.
My random thoughts on the demise of a mother. What do I
understand while pronouncing “mother”?
I do not need to go far away. I just see so many mothers
around, to name a few, I shall say:
Dr
Bhavana Desai (My wife)
Dr
Amita Desai
Dr
Shefali Naik
Mina Vijay
Desai
And I just see a few single mothers like:
Dr
Indumati K Desai (My mother-in-law)
Vasuben
Radhod (My hospital staff)
And
many more.
What I have learnt about ‘mothers’ from them, is, they are:
For
their offspring in total, forever.
Thinking
about them all the while.
Living
only for them – offering all they have.
Round-the-clock ‘mothers’ and nothing else – ignoring their own identity and
profession.
In so
much love with their children, they ignore any insulting behaviour they get.
I would like to quote some of the famous personalities from Gujarati literature and spiritual leadership.
Morari Bapu:
I would like to quote some of the famous personalities from Gujarati literature and spiritual leadership.
Morari Bapu:
- Mother is one who offers all she has – total offering.
- Mother is a great mixture of forgiveness (Pardon) and compassion (Mercy).
Suresh Dalal:
- Mother is blind towards her children. And she may not love all others alike.
- Mother knows all that her child needs, and she will give it even before she/he demands.
Gunvant Shah:
- We miss seeing what is near to us. And so we never realise a mother’s importance – thereby we miss acknowledging and appreciating her.
- Mother has total acceptance for her child, however bad or misbehaving the child is. She will love and bless to her maximum.
On learning about the demise of somebody else’s mother, I have observed
some people saying, ‘I have never met her’ or even daring to say, ‘I was not
aware their mother was alive at all’. This is too much, and unfortunately not
uncommon.
All we need is to define the list of our close friends and
be in regular touch – visit them as frequently as possible, and be with them.
If you find someone not worth your friendship, forget him. But be sure to
maintain a few intimate-close and total
friends. Loss of touch is a modern-day problem, best avoided.
It was only a few days before you had the last touch of your
mother – the touch before saying the final bye-bye. The last touch means
thereafter you won’t be able to touch your alive mother again.
Well, then to make it alive, love the mothers of others who
are alive. Love, respect and do everything for her that you would have done for
your mother.
We can easily say goodbye to our mother on her last
departure if we have:
Respected her during her lifetime,
Honoured her all she dues,
Not allowing her to be unhappy or weeping because of us…
And still, nothing you do is enough.
Have you served your mother to your satisfaction?
While being surrounded by strangers struggling with their problems at a public place, say,in a lift,
in a waiting room,
in a queue at the bank, cinema,
or
elsewhere,
we remain silent and make no conversation.
Because we think it to be a bad manner, awkward or challenging.
That is not right. Instead, try with a smile, raising your hand and a small-talk. Talk may be about anything; say weather, long waiting or just anything like that. I am sure it will not only relieve the tension but also create a forging bond between humans.
We understand, only bacterias, viruses and fungi spread infection and they are contagious. But there are many behavioural factors that lead to their own spread, and we do not notice them.
Actually, behavioural matters spread faster than we think.
Actually, behavioural matters spread faster than we think.
Wabi-Sabi is a Japanese philosophy that celebrates-respects "age" and the imperfections created by ageing (usually in inanimate objects like vases, wooden benches, etc.).
Activeness on Facebook, Whatsapp, Twitter and Blog
If you want to be active on all these social media platforms, do so.
Do not hesitate.
Do express all you want.
But...
Be prepared for poor or zero response/feedback.
The expectation of active communication may lead to frustration... depression.
If you want to be active on all these social media platforms, do so.
Do not hesitate.
Do express all you want.
But...
Be prepared for poor or zero response/feedback.
The expectation of active communication may lead to frustration... depression.
I am happy to address my readers once again with a very important subject of day-to-day problems: Stress.
Stress is a force that strains and deforms. People, events and circumstances take over you, and create stress. It is a physical expression of emotional insult. Emotions like Fear, Guilt, Shame, Anger, Worry, Guilt and Doubt lead to stress.That practically covers every normal, routine emotion. Then, how can we deal with stress?
Facebook Friends
More the number of friends, more the time needed to see their updates and respond. Sometimes, one feels it is a waste of time.
So better avoid unknown, half-known and the friends of friends types.
What is the ideal maximum number?
More the number of friends, more the time needed to see their updates and respond. Sometimes, one feels it is a waste of time.
So better avoid unknown, half-known and the friends of friends types.
What is the ideal maximum number?
When should a doctor retire?
Your reply is a must...
ICU (Intensive Care Unit). It is the most alert and up-to-date department in a hospital.
Minimum expectations of the patient admitted here are would be:
Minimum expectations of the patient admitted here are would be:
- There is a doctor present all the time (round-o-clock) to treat the patient and attend to any emergencies.
- The present doctor must be having technical skills and know-how in the management of critical care. He/she may be a Physician/Anaesthetist/Critical care treatment specialist.
- Necessary gadgets like a cardiac monitor, ventilator, pacemaker, cardiac defibrillator and such others are present in working condition.
- Emergency Medicines, Oxygen, continuous electric power and assisting staff on duty.
Addiction
Internet users with Facebook, Whatsapp, Emails and what not, very well know the (usefulness and) uselessness of the continuous connectivity and still can not stop the wastage of time in this activity. Just like the addicts of alcohol, smoking and tobacco chewing...
Internet users with Facebook, Whatsapp, Emails and what not, very well know the (usefulness and) uselessness of the continuous connectivity and still can not stop the wastage of time in this activity. Just like the addicts of alcohol, smoking and tobacco chewing...
Addiction to be attended to as an emergency
Beware if you are seeing in your mobile/computer while being with someone talking to you. You are missing a great real moment for virtual reality and showing a great insult to the people around.
This is internet addiction needing urgent attention. Real life relationships and persons around are more important than distant imaginary 'virtual' world.
Beware if you are seeing in your mobile/computer while being with someone talking to you. You are missing a great real moment for virtual reality and showing a great insult to the people around.
This is internet addiction needing urgent attention. Real life relationships and persons around are more important than distant imaginary 'virtual' world.
Just owning a camera does not make you a photographer!
You have to learn the fundamentals of photography and technical know-how of cameras, or you will come out with dull and irritating photos. I request my friends to be kind enough to see the image, its light and contents ("the subject") appearing in the frame before using the "CLICK" button.
You have to learn the fundamentals of photography and technical know-how of cameras, or you will come out with dull and irritating photos. I request my friends to be kind enough to see the image, its light and contents ("the subject") appearing in the frame before using the "CLICK" button.
After Parsis, Anavils (Anavil Brahmins, અનાવિલ બ્રાહ્મણ ) are the fastest decreasing community. The total population of Anavils around the world does not exceed two lakhs figure and that is also fast reducing day by day. Days are not far, beyond a century or so, when they will have to be seen/found in records, photos, and videos. Why?
Because,
So,
Mr. Klass W VanDer Veen - a Dutch scholar and Professor at Amsterdam University prepared a thesis on "Anavils" and wrote a book "I Give Thee My Daughter ". He concluded, "Anavils are smart, efficient, and clever but heavily disunited.”
British Government recognized Anavil as one with a sharp intellect and efficient administrator.
Ambelal G Desai (Valsad), Author of a book on Anavils of South Gujarat, who studied Anavilism extensively, said: “By and large, the people of this area – Anavils – are clever, frank, tolerant, quiet, luxury-loving and cheerful. They are not prone to quarrel readily and are not found wanting in doing whatever could be achieved lawfully.” (Anavils of South Gujarat was published in 1969 in Gujarati, and translated in English by Harish Desai and Hakumat Desai in 1995)
Captain Newport (1882) had personal and extensive contact with Anavils. He found Anavils as:
We were living and belonging to South Gujarat (in India), from Kosamba in the north to Vapi towns within the south. 120 kilometers area between rivers Daman Ganga in the south to Kim in the north was inhabited in South Gujarat (India) by Anavils. Nowadays one can find an Anavil anywhere in any country in the world.
You can find Anavils anywhere, say:
History of Anavils
The history of Anavils has deep roots. 5,000 years back, Anavils were brought to a village named Anaval (then known as Anadipur) in South Gujarat from Ayodhya by Hanuman for doing Maha Yajña for Shri Rama who wanted to wash out the sin of killing King Ravana – a brahmin. They were Aryans migrated from Afghanistan.
According to the Court poet Bhukhan of Chatrapati Shivaji Maharaj, the population of Anaulla (now known as Anavils) were staying at Magadh around Bihar. The ruler Anavil named "Putrak" married to Naga Kanya "Patli" and they constructed the capital city of their state "Patli-Putrak". He said, the great Chanakya, also known as Kautilya, was Anavil.
After this great mission, these Brahmins labelled as Anavils became ruler of Kingdom Anaval. Anaval state had Vyara, Mahuva, Vansada and Chikhali talukas.
Buddhists took the Bhil community in hand to have a war with Anavils under the leadership of Vansia Bhil. The Anavil king lost this war. Around 1186 AD, the Anavil king Samandhar Vashi won the war against Vansia Bhil with the help of Rajput King of Paatan, Siddharaj Jaisinh. But he lost interest in Kingdom and gave it to Rajputs. King Digvirandrasinh was the last Rajput ruler of this state, later named as Vansada state.
Anavils were spread all around 300 villages of South Gujarat. I must tell about a few important ones with their relevant stories.
Gopi Naik Raso said, "The Anavil, instead of engaging himself in duties of a Brahmin, made politics dear and achieved bright success in it. He became the pillar of the state. Power and wealth were at his feet and he remained Ajachak (Non-acceptor) and a donor. Because of being non-acceptor and donor, he enjoyed a special position amongst the Brahmins. People respected him for his power and influence with the government. His generosity earned him the nickname of "Baadshah".
With all these details, who would like this great community to vanish? The attempts to save them has to start at earliest before it is too late. In addition to Anavils themselves, the NGO and Government machinery should be active to stop their decrease in number.
The facts and statistics in this article are based on the book Anavils of South Gujarat written by Ambelal Gopalji Desai (in Gujarati) and translated in English by Harish Desai and Hakumat Desai (1995), published by Harshad K Desai.
Because,
- they get married too late,
- many are dying unmarried,
- they wait for the career to be settled before the first (and maybe the only) childbirth.
So,
The number of children per couple is either one or zero.
It is certain that nothing can save this community from extinction - vanishing!
Let me try to introduce this community.
Mr. Klass W VanDer Veen - a Dutch scholar and Professor at Amsterdam University prepared a thesis on "Anavils" and wrote a book "I Give Thee My Daughter ". He concluded, "Anavils are smart, efficient, and clever but heavily disunited.”
British Government recognized Anavil as one with a sharp intellect and efficient administrator.
Ambelal G Desai (Valsad), Author of a book on Anavils of South Gujarat, who studied Anavilism extensively, said: “By and large, the people of this area – Anavils – are clever, frank, tolerant, quiet, luxury-loving and cheerful. They are not prone to quarrel readily and are not found wanting in doing whatever could be achieved lawfully.” (Anavils of South Gujarat was published in 1969 in Gujarati, and translated in English by Harish Desai and Hakumat Desai in 1995)
Captain Newport (1882) had personal and extensive contact with Anavils. He found Anavils as:
- Flattering and obedient
- On being questioned, they would hardly give a straight answer. They would either give the wrong answer prompted by selfish motives or feign ignorance.
- Best Farmers
- Smart and industrious
- Intelligent
- They are known for their tact and quarrelsome nature.
- They are firmly insistent on getting their viewpoint accepted.
- They are fond of litigation and fight with unusual tenacity for a tree, a piece of land, or for a confiscated right. Only death can end their dispute.
- They cannot be won over by arguments or negotiations.
- Superiority Complex: We (Anavils, that is) have inherited this virtue because of being “King" - the rulers. Each one of us considers him/herself "The Best" of all around and the most intelligent individual, whatever the real IQ level may be. This simple-looking virtue becomes bad to worse later when he/she progresses to consider all others inferior to him/her. The real problem starts here and because of this lack of respect for one another in particular and community, in general, cannot be expected. The unity amongst caste fellows is not to be dreamt of.
- My truth is the only truth: We are intelligent people and good administrators, but we dominate. Whatever one says is the only truth and it has to be followed by everyone. It is not optional nor there is any scope for correction or discussion. This nature has led to many poor relationships amongst each other and no fellow is available.
From Prime Minister, Physician, and Pleader to Peon – Anavils are everywhere!
We were living and belonging to South Gujarat (in India), from Kosamba in the north to Vapi towns within the south. 120 kilometers area between rivers Daman Ganga in the south to Kim in the north was inhabited in South Gujarat (India) by Anavils. Nowadays one can find an Anavil anywhere in any country in the world.
You can find Anavils anywhere, say:
Prime Minister of India, Morarji R DesaiChief Justice of India, Dhirubhai DesaiGovernor of the State (Andhra Pradesh), Khandubhai DesaiManaging Director of L & T, Anil M NaikPhysician to President of India, Dr Chhotubhai NaikPleader, Bhulabhai Desai
The list can never end until you fill all the important positions by Anavils. Let’s go deeper into history.
History of Anavils
The history of Anavils has deep roots. 5,000 years back, Anavils were brought to a village named Anaval (then known as Anadipur) in South Gujarat from Ayodhya by Hanuman for doing Maha Yajña for Shri Rama who wanted to wash out the sin of killing King Ravana – a brahmin. They were Aryans migrated from Afghanistan.
According to the Court poet Bhukhan of Chatrapati Shivaji Maharaj, the population of Anaulla (now known as Anavils) were staying at Magadh around Bihar. The ruler Anavil named "Putrak" married to Naga Kanya "Patli" and they constructed the capital city of their state "Patli-Putrak". He said, the great Chanakya, also known as Kautilya, was Anavil.
After this great mission, these Brahmins labelled as Anavils became ruler of Kingdom Anaval. Anaval state had Vyara, Mahuva, Vansada and Chikhali talukas.
Buddhists took the Bhil community in hand to have a war with Anavils under the leadership of Vansia Bhil. The Anavil king lost this war. Around 1186 AD, the Anavil king Samandhar Vashi won the war against Vansia Bhil with the help of Rajput King of Paatan, Siddharaj Jaisinh. But he lost interest in Kingdom and gave it to Rajputs. King Digvirandrasinh was the last Rajput ruler of this state, later named as Vansada state.
Anavils were spread all around 300 villages of South Gujarat. I must tell about a few important ones with their relevant stories.
- Anaval: Anaval is 60 km from Surat and Navsari having Shukleshwar Mahadev Temple on the bank of river Kaveri. It is considered to be the primary place of Anavil settlement in the region and Brahmins who resided here became famous as Anavil Brahmins (1932 Anaval Jagat). Anaval is our birth-place and Lord Rama had installed Lord Shukleshwar himself (1906 Vasanji Desai). Shri Kalidas (in Mukta Shastra) said Anaval was inhabited by Anavils and their marble decoration was comparable to Paris and Venice.
- Surat: Majority of land was owned by Anavils. The credit for creation and growth of Surat city goes to Anavils. It was only Anavils, the active force in this District as it is in their names they formed different "Para" resided by a specific group of Anavils. Residents of Surat are using these names for described area till today.
- Gandevi: "Desaiji Pedhi" of Anant Vashi is known for last 400 years. Their history is highly credit-worthy. I must tell you about the Sati Mata temple of Gandevi, situated on the bank of a pond at crossroads. The daughter of Gopalji Desai, Ichchhaben, had become "Sati" (dying on the cremation-fire of her husband). She was the first and the last Sati in Anavil community. In her memory, Desaiji family erected a temple. The people of faith go to pay obeisance to temple where a fare is held annually during festivals of Diwali.
- Mamadev Temple of Puni: We can go on talking this and that, but I shall contain with this last story of Puni. An Anavil brother attacked robbers to protect his sister from being robbed. He attacked robbers successfully with the help of local youth but lost his own life in the pious duty of saving the sister and village from robbers. In his memory, the grateful people of Puni erected a temple "Mamadev Temple" seen till today.
Anavils are a dynamic community ready to change for better and in the process, they have had multiple resolutions for social reforms regarding marriage, engagement, dowry, thread ceremony, death and condolence. 1868 Resolution, 1924 Kaliawadi Resolution, 1929 Puni Resolution and 1931 Paria (Taluka: Olpad) Anavil Samaj Sudharak Mandal to name a few.
With all these details, who would like this great community to vanish? The attempts to save them has to start at earliest before it is too late. In addition to Anavils themselves, the NGO and Government machinery should be active to stop their decrease in number.
Timely marriage, early children (minimum two) and marriage among the same caste of Anavils are the minimum steps.We cannot sit and relax...
Who will do this?
Shall we start a commercial campaign to do all this?
Or shall we start preparing museum of Anavils to show the extinguished species of Anavils?
The facts and statistics in this article are based on the book Anavils of South Gujarat written by Ambelal Gopalji Desai (in Gujarati) and translated in English by Harish Desai and Hakumat Desai (1995), published by Harshad K Desai.
Also read: મોરારજી દેસાઈ (ગુજરાતી લેખ)
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Have a look at the brief survey I conducted on Facebook.
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The sun is hot, so provides heat...
It's enlightened, so provides light...
Gujarati synonyms for the sun are Suraj (સૂરજ), Bhaskar (ભાસ્કર), Ravi (રવિ )...
Here is a coincidence to quote:
It's enlightened, so provides light...
Gujarati synonyms for the sun are Suraj (સૂરજ), Bhaskar (ભાસ્કર), Ravi (રવિ )...
Here is a coincidence to quote:
- The father's name was Bhaskar (Sun) till he started the school
- And the son's name was Ravi (Sun) till he started the school
Being a member of the male-dominated culture and having an Anavil inheritance of male-ego, I was wrongly considering myself superior to my wife Dr Bhavana Desai (Devyani). I want to confess, I was wrong.
My close friend Piyushbhai Dharaiya formed a charitable trust in the name of his wife Late Jyotsanaben and decided to donate the interest away, every year. I suggested him to visit Shivarimal School for Blind Children and experience the emotions of blind students. We finally visited this place on Sunday, February 16th, 2014 and the result is this introductory article.
Whatever idealistic discussions we do, there are certain emotions that come out without our will – involuntarily. Hatred is one of them. I shall introduce the subject first.
Penguin dictionary describes Hate as a deep enduring intense emotion expressing animosity, anger and hostility towards a person, group or object. So, hate is deep and emotional dislike created by ideas, individuals, entities or objects.
Penguin dictionary describes Hate as a deep enduring intense emotion expressing animosity, anger and hostility towards a person, group or object. So, hate is deep and emotional dislike created by ideas, individuals, entities or objects.
Computer users having internet connection are most of the time restricted to Social Media like "Facebook" or just reading E-mails received. Here is a book for them to teach all the details on the subject. Author Raghu Pandey (an Expert on the Internet) has spent more than 18 months in preparing this book to make us understand the subject in the most simple and easy way. This is a book for all!Raghvendra “Raghu” Pandey
I personally know Raghu - the author - for more than a decade now. His way of living life has impressed me in many ways. He is open to experimenting with life on himself and for that earning money is just a byproduct. The intense desire to teach students the subject Internet has made him spend nearly one and half a year to write this book. Let me say: it was this virtue of doing social service for self-satisfaction and desire to express knowledge in the simplest and easy to understand the way that led him to write this book.
I personally know Raghu - the author - for more than a decade now. His way of living life has impressed me in many ways. He is open to experimenting with life on himself and for that earning money is just a byproduct. The intense desire to teach students the subject Internet has made him spend nearly one and half a year to write this book. Let me say: it was this virtue of doing social service for self-satisfaction and desire to express knowledge in the simplest and easy to understand the way that led him to write this book.
Respect:
- If someone respects you, you like that.
- If someone respects you, you reciprocate by respecting him/her. (The person concerned may be good or bad.)
Destination Wedding:
Elopement:
- It is a wedding event generally held far away from residences of the would-be couple.
- Here, the wedding is hosted in a location where guests have to travel long to reach the said wedding place... the DESTINATION.
- Guests are expected to stay long for the event.
- Places are usually grand like Palace, Resort, Beach. In India, Goa, Udaipur and some resorts near Mumbai are typically considered. It is one's imagination and choice.
Elopement:
- This is a way of getting married... often unexpectedly... without inviting guests to the wedding.
- Usually, such weddings are without consent and/or knowledge of the parents.
- Such weddings, when informed to relatives, are often a surprise.
Praise: We are fond of being a man in the crowd of the herd, having a herd mentality, just copying and doing what others do... be it praising Sachin Tendulkar or anybody else for that matter.
We shall never find out our own Hero around us doing great social service worth appreciating and do that.
We shall never find out our own Hero around us doing great social service worth appreciating and do that.
We often get impressed by someone very easily and carried away to praise, appreciate and raise above oneself. All around us follow and a big crowd of followers is created around a wrong person. By the time we realise our mistake and decide to throw them down, great social damage has already occurred.
Take a pledge this Dasserra:
- Decide the dates for meeting parents staying away
- If by chance your parents are staying away from you, fix minimum two to three of these days every year for meeting the parents:
- Your own birthday
- Your wedding anniversary
- New year day morning
- Holi
- Raksha-bandhan
- Makar Sankranti
- Independence/Republic Day or
- Any date suitable to you every year
Your Relations/Friends and You!
Every relation has three possible situations:
Just try...
Every relation has three possible situations:
- Relation with both Love and Respect
- Relation, but neither Love nor Respect
- Relation with either of the two: Love Or Respect
Just try...
Check whether you have any one of the following:
If any one of above is "YES", you are mentally an OLD-PERSON needing mental care or your end is imminent.
- You have stopped long walks, though you are not physically unfit.
- You have started eating more than you were eating for last few years.
- You have stopped learning new things and studying.
- You have started counting your assets and bank deposits.
- You have accepted and started liking your obesity and big abdomen.
If any one of above is "YES", you are mentally an OLD-PERSON needing mental care or your end is imminent.
I say, do not remove shoes outside the house!
People expecting or demanding you to remove the shoes outside their entrance must be sure of a clean and smooth walkable floor, or they should provide an alternative disposable pair of shoes/slippers to the visitor.
What do you say?
People expecting or demanding you to remove the shoes outside their entrance must be sure of a clean and smooth walkable floor, or they should provide an alternative disposable pair of shoes/slippers to the visitor.
What do you say?
Agenda:
Contact information:
Dr Bharatchandra M Desai
Desai Eye Hospital, Feeder Road, B/h Bilimora Bus Depot, Bilimora – 396380
Mobile: +91-9924063045
Phone: +91-2634-284620
Venue Details:
Jalaram Mandir Hall, Somnath Sankul, Bilimora - 396321
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NOTE: This is an open event. There are no entry charges. Invite your friends to this event via Facebook.
- ‘Lecture on Organ Donation and Body Donation’ – by Dr Prafull Shiroya (Lokdrushti Trust, Surat)
- ‘Problems of a Blind Person & Her/his Development through Modern Technologies’ – by Dipak Raval (National Association for Blind, Navsari)
- Felicitation of Organ/Body Donors’ Family Members
Dr Bharatchandra M Desai
Desai Eye Hospital, Feeder Road, B/h Bilimora Bus Depot, Bilimora – 396380
Mobile: +91-9924063045
Phone: +91-2634-284620
Venue Details:
Jalaram Mandir Hall, Somnath Sankul, Bilimora - 396321
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NOTE: This is an open event. There are no entry charges. Invite your friends to this event via Facebook.
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